One Year of Getting It Together
February 2024: The Wake-Up Call
Henrik and his partner had been ignoring
their finances for months. They had savings,
but no idea how much was coming in versus
going out. Tax time was always stressful
because they'd scramble to find deductions.
First session: discovered they were spending
$890 monthly on things they couldn't name
when asked.
March-April 2024: The Foundation
Started tracking every dollar for two months.
Not forever—just long enough to understand
their patterns. Henrik was shocked by how
much went to takeaway coffee and last-minute
dinner orders when they were too tired to
cook.
By April, they had a realistic picture and
categories that made sense for their actual
life.
May-August 2024: Building Habits
Set up automatic transfers to a separate
savings account on payday. Started meal
prepping on Sundays. Henrik's partner took
over tracking one week, he did the next. Made
it a shared thing instead of one person's
job.
Had one massive argument in June about
whether they needed a new couch. The budget
helped them realize they wanted it but didn't
need it yet.
Saved $4,100 in four months without feeling
deprived.
September-December 2024: Seeing Results
Hit their emergency fund goal of $8,000.
Henrik said it was the first time in his
adult life he didn't feel one bad week away
from trouble. Started planning for a proper
holiday in 2025—already have half saved.
Now they do a monthly check-in over coffee,
takes about 20 minutes, and they actually
sleep better.